Different Types Of Narcissists: What You Should Know

Encountering a narcissist can present a range of challenges and leave you feeling emotionally drained and manipulated. When that person is a close relative or romantic partner, the issues compound. “If you’ve had a narcissist in your life, you probably felt that you didn’t have a voice,” Virginia Gilbert, a licensed marriage and family therapist,…

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Are You ‘Masking’ In Social Settings?

Are you “masking” when you’re at a bar with your coworkers? Or how about at a family reunion with your distant relatives? Masking refers to hiding or suppressing certain thoughts, feelings or behaviors to fit into different situations, according to Tiffany Hodges, a licensed clinical psychologist and chief science officer of ABA Centers. Oftentimes, this…

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How To Tell If Someone Is Your Frenemy vs. Your Friend

You probably know the type: a friend who can make you laugh one moment and leave you second-guessing yourself the next. A “frenemy,” if you will. These frustrating, ambivalent relationships aren’t just emotionally draining —studies suggest they can actually harm your health, spiking stress levels, raising blood pressure and even contributing to faster aging. “They…

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Should Taylor Swift’s Engagement Really Be Breaking News? Swifties And Non-Swifties Debate.

Welcome to Ick Court, where we debate/rate the ickiness of internet trends, “Am I The Asshole”-esque discussions, and various WTF-am-I-looking-at moments that come across our browsers. For this installment, we ask: Did the news cycle around Taylor Swift’s engagement give us “the ick”? As news spread Tuesday that mega-pop star Taylor Swift and NFL player…

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Dua Lipa Defends White Dress Controversy

Dua Lipa is setting the record straight on a wedding guest outfit she wore that sparked outrage on the internet. The “Levitating” singer addressed the dress in question that she wore to designer Simon Porte Jacquemus and Marco Maestri’s 2022 nuptials. “This outfit kind of caused a little bit of a stir online because it’s…

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What No One Tells You About Sex After 70

There’s a lot of mystery surrounding sex in your 60s, 70s and beyond. Look online and you’ll find countless threads where curious younger people ask if older people are having sex at all, and if they are having it, what it’s like. “What does it feel like?” others wonder. (Good, we imagine? It’s still sex!)…

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6 Phrases Gaslighters Use To Manipulate You

Gaslighting, a manipulation tactic often wielded by emotional abusers, gradually makes you question your own judgment, feelings, memories and reality. Because of its insidious nature, it can be hard for victims to recognize it as it’s happening. Abusers use gaslighting as a way to gain and maintain power and control in the relationship. They break…

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Jennifer Aniston Addresses Obama Rumors

Jennifer Aniston is putting the Barack Obama dating rumors to rest once and for all. Aniston briefly touched on her relationship with the Obamas in a Vanity Fair profile, where she shared that she actually knows Michelle better than Barack. “I was lucky enough to have dinner with Michelle a month ago,” Aniston said in…

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What Tradwives Should Know About Family Finances

Search the term “tradwife” on TikTok and you’ll find thousands of carefully curated videos from creators like 26-year-old Estee Williams from Richmond, Virginia, and Hannah Neeleman, also known as Ballerina Farm, who has amassed 7 million followers sharing cooking and homemaking videos from her Utah farmhouse. The videos feature a soft life aesthetic: modern women…

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Don Jr.’s Alleged Ex Slams Jesse Watters’ Trump Wedding Prediction

In a MAGA fever dream, Watters predicted that the 27-year-old “White Lotus” actor would marry 19-year-old Barron Trump and “create the greatest political dynasty in American history.” Watters’ suggestion was so over the top that it attracted a special type of internet snark. O’Day responded to Watters’ Sydney Sweeney-Barron Trump wedding prediction Monday night: Despite…

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I Teach Women How To Give A Blow Job

“Good morning, class. Welcome to Blowjobs 101. Please get out your zucchinis, put on your knee pads and let’s get started.” Today’s instructor (me) is the last person you’d look at on the street and think, “There’s a blow job champion!” Even I find my story hard to swallow (sorry). Whatever I’ve called my classes…

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How To Know If You’re The Toxic One In A Relationship

“Toxic” has become a buzzword in relationship discourse these days, with countless articles, videos and social media posts about how to spot a potentially problematic partner and get yourself out of an unhealthy relationship. “When working with couples, I would define toxic relationships as ones where there are consistent patterns of harmful behavior occurring between…

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Matty Healy’s Mom Shades Taylor Swift

Matty Healy’s mother took a public swipe at Taylor Swift this week, suggesting she’s glad her son’s romance with the 14-time Grammy winner was short-lived. Appearing Thursday on Bravo’s “Watch What Happens Live,” Denise Welch was asked for her thoughts on “The Tortured Poets Department,” Swift’s blockbuster 2024 album that contains numerous songs believed to…

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Viral Debate Highlights Scary Conservative Trend

A viral clip from a debate between political commentator and journalist Mehdi Hasan and a self-proclaimed fascist is bringing to light some troubling realities about the conservative movement and the general level of public discourse today. Hasan appeared in the latest episode of Jubilee’s “Surrounded” series titled “1 Progressive vs 20 Far-Right Conservatives,” during which…

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Kelly Clarkson Shares Why She’s Not Dating

Three years after a headline-making divorce, Kelly Clarkson is in no rush to find a new relationship. The three-time Grammy winner and daytime talk show host made a rare comment about the status of her love life Sunday while performing at the Colosseum at Caesars Palace in Las Vegas. “Dating can be very difficult, which…

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Neal McDonough Ends No Kissing Rule For This Movie

Despite a Hollywood career spanning 35 years, Neal McDonough says he’s never kissed a woman on-screen before ― until now. McDonough, whose credits include “Band of Brothers” and “Captain America: The First Avenger,” stars as bull riding champion Joe Wainwright in “The Last Rodeo,” released in May. In a TikTok video posted that same month,…

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What Is Cushioning In Relationships?

Years ago, writer Sara C. felt palpable chemistry with a coworker. She had been married for 14 years at the time, but her friendship with the man was flirtatious and she started to fixate on it. They communicated regularly and had coffee dates. Then they slept together. But a line was crossed even before the…

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I Began To Heal At An Elephant Sanctuary

Her undulating tongue moved wet and slippery against my hand as her trunk pressed the unpeeled bananas into her mouth. I wore a blue canvas bag, laden with sugarcane and bananas, and I was surrounded by elephants. It was my last day in Thailand after making the painful decision to abort my trip 10 days…

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Pete Davidson Expecting Child With Elsie Hewitt

Pete Davidson is about to become a father. The comedian and his model girlfriend, Elsie Hewitt, are expecting their first child together, Hewitt confirmed on her Instagram account Wednesday. “Welp now everyone knows we had sex,” she wrote in a post showing photos of her and Davidson together and a video of the model beaming…

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Ken Paxton’s Wife Files For Divorce On ‘Biblical Grounds’ Following Infidelity Allegations

Texas state Sen. Angela Paxton (R) has filed for divorce from Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton on “biblical grounds,” ending their nearly four-decade marriage. “Today, after 38 years of marriage, I filed for divorce on biblical grounds,” she announced on X. “I believe marriage is a sacred covenant and I have earnestly pursued reconciliation. But…

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Mariah Carey Jeff Bezos Wedding 3-Word Response

Mariah Carey has joined the ranks of public figures who have shared their thoughts on Amazon founder Jeff Bezos’ star-studded wedding ― and in true Mariah fashion, she kept her take notably concise. Fans seem to be loving Carey’s three-word response when asked by paparazzi about Bezos’ June 27 wedding to author and former news…

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My Wife Died. Here Is How I Deal With Grief.

My wife Rebecca and I celebrated our 26th anniversary while she was getting in-patient care at a hospice center for pain management for her colon cancer. Well, “celebrated” is not quite right, though we certainly tried. That day I dressed up a bit and brought her an elegant blue dress, pictures from our funky wedding,…

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When Is It OK To Give A Sex Toy As A Gift?

A sex toy can be an exciting and confidence-boosting gift to buy for yourself. But is such an intimate item ever an appropriate thing to give as a gift to someone else, particularly if you don’t have a sexual or romantic relationship with them? According to sexologists and relationship experts, the answer is … it…

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My Grandson Asked The 1 Question I Was Totally Unprepared To Answer. Did I Say The Right Thing?

In the past few weeks, I’ve attended dozens of weddings. Luckily, I didn’t need new clothing for each one. But I have been tasked with outfitting numerous guests, and even the bride and groom themselves, squeezing skimpily made garments with Velcro closures onto slender bodies. We’re talking plastic bodies ― Barbies, Kens, Skippers, Chelseas and…

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Should I Take My Dog Out In This Heat?

This summer is already a scorcher, and the past few summers have seen record-setting temperatures and heat waves around the world. People are trying their best to stay cool and healthy, but those with pets are also concerned about their furry friends. Although dogs famously love to run and play outside, that might not be…

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How To Handle Disappointment With Your Adult Child

You adored them as a kid — their joy, their wonder, their lopsided art projects and endless asking of “why?” But now they’re 19 and only care about TikTok, or designer shoes, or conspiracy podcasts. Or maybe they’ve grown into someone you find unrecognizable, even unsettling. It’s a quiet heartbreak many family members and caregivers…

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Relationship Habits That Are Signs Of ADHD

Do you find it difficult to focus on a task when your partner is talking to you? Do you go to bed much later than your partner? Do you take comments from your partner personally, even when they don’t mean to criticize you? While everyone in relationships may experience these scenarios, when they happen often…

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NFL Star Josh Allen Marries Actor Hailee Steinfeld

Buffalo Bills quarterback Josh Allen and actor Hailee Steinfeld tied the knot on Saturday, according to multiple media reports. Pictures emerged from the power couple’s wedding that took place in Southern California, where both Allen and Steinfeld live. Photos obtained by People magazine show Steinfeld, in a white strapless gown, walking down the aisle as…

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The Rudest Things You Can Do At The Beach

Spending a day at the beach can be an absolute blast. Your fellow beachgoers, however, can make it decidedly less enjoyable. “In general, etiquette is all about being mindful of other people, which certainly includes being mindful of other people at the beach,” Nick Leighton, an etiquette expert and co-host of the “Were You Raised…

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Trump And Putin’s Relationship Is So On The Rocks, We Had To Ask A Couples Therapist To Weigh In

Historically, President Donald Trump and Russia’s President Vladimir Putin have enjoyed a very special relationship ― at least if you’re viewing it through Trump’s perspective. As far back as 2013, Trump was envisioning a friendship with the Russian authoritarian leader, whose allegiance to Trump has proved more ambiguous through the years. “Do you think Putin…

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Malignant Narcissism Is The Most Toxic Type

It’s hard enough dealing with garden-variety narcissists, who exhibit grandiose or even covert characteristics of inflated ego, self-absorption and questionable empathy. But there’s another type of narcissism that is far more toxic and dangerous — and it has a fitting name: malignant narcissism. What exactly does this kind of personality entail and how should we…

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Joe Jonas Shares Surprising Take On Co-Parenting

Joe Jonas made a surprising admission about co-parenting with his ex-wife, Sophie Turner, in a new interview last week. The two, whose contentious divorce occasionally played out in the public eye, seemed to be making strides toward a more positive relationship. “They have an incredible mom. I have a beautiful co-parenting relationship that I’m really…

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6 Phrases Gaslighters Use To Manipulate You

Gaslighting, a manipulation tactic often wielded by emotional abusers, gradually makes you question your own judgment, feelings, memories and reality. Because of its insidious nature, it can be hard for victims to recognize it as it’s happening. Abusers use gaslighting as a way to gain and maintain power and control in the relationship. They break…

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10 Common Signs of Social Anxiety

Everyone has felt anxious in social situations. You’ve probably stumbled over your words while speaking to someone new, or experienced the jitters of arriving first at an event without a familiar face in sight. For some people, this anxiety prevents them from being able to socialize without feeling distressed. They may keep canceling on friends,…

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Is AI The Future Of Couple’s Therapy?

Picture this: You’re at brunch with a friend opening up about her marriage struggles. As she shares, you offer the classic advice: better communication, more date nights, maybe trying couples therapy. All solid suggestions, but now there’s a new player in the relationship-help arena: artificial intelligence. TikTok is now filled with videos promoting AI as…

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Outdated Etiquette Rules We Can Let Go Of Today

These days, many aspects of traditional etiquette feel outdated. From rigid dress codes to time-consuming formalities, many old rules no longer fit with our modern lives and resources. “In some of the antique etiquette books in my collection, there are some doozies that would be laughable in today’s world,” Jodi R.R. Smith, the president of…

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